I work in IT, and in my spare time I (among other things) perform music, go skiing and hiking and enjoy good food (out or home)
I have realized that dedicating my time, money and energy to a beautiful dominant woman's happiness and comfort brings me a deep sense of belonging and meaning and feelings that I value more than ordinary sexual pleasure. I dream of a life with a mistress who can trap me in that feeling, take control and ownership over me and make me continuously strive and improve to be allowed to serve her.
How that happens isn't that important. But from my previous experiences I think the following matter:
(These things can change. Maybe i evolve to discover my self further. Maybe you change me. The most important thing is a relationship that makes my submissiveness for you grow)
* Connection and relationship. Without a solid relationship evolving I think it would never be possible for me to submit fully. This is very important to me.
* To be useful. Financially and otherwise. To be able to spend time to be useful to a Mistress is important to me.
* Sissification. Becoming the most perverted and slutty sissy that is possible withing my current life situation and hard limits.
* Dominance and control. I think that Submission and domination enforce each other and can be a good circle evolving. Without dominance and control my submission will fade away. I hope for the opposite - for it to grow to new highs.
* Money. Both to be financially useful and financially dominated is important. Slavery feels meaningless if money is not involved. Hopefully my mistress over time will help me become as useful financially as possible within my life situation.
* Other fetish/BDSM activities. I think it is great if fetish/BDSM activities can blend in with everything else. I hope to explore limits in lots of activities - but the other moments mentioned above is more important than specific fetishes.
* Life. Feel that the relationship affects my life. Change it. That I'm controlled and serving. But also that the relationship includes other elements in each others life. That we find some common interests. That it can be possible to do vanilla things together that we both enjoy.
| Geschlecht | männlich |
| Alter | 45 |
| Beziehung | single |
| Herkunftsland | Norwegen |
| Stadt | OSLO |
| Haarfarbe | blond |
| Augenfarbe | blau |
| Statur | durchschnittlich |
| Körpergröße | 176 |
| Schuhgröße | 44 |
| Devot | ja |
| Switcher | nein |
| Cuckolding | ja |
| Sadist | nein |
| Masochist | ja |
| Fußfetisch | ja |
| Schuhfetisch | ja |
| Toilettenerziehung | ja |
| Realtreffen | ja |
| Schuldscheine | nein |
| Blackmail | nein |
| Gebrauchsgegenstände | ja |
| Toys | ja |
| Keuschheitsversklavung | ja |
I really like my job, my friends and music activities in my spare time.
I work in IT and enjoy working with computers, but most important communication with customers and solving their problems.
In my spare time I enjoy performing music and make music with others creating an experience for the audience. I also like to invite friends for dinner, go for a long hike or foot or skis, watch a TV series episode or three, play board games and go to concerts.
But when serving and feeling a desire to please I'd rather put my time and money to the benefit of my Mistress.
I find it hard to relate to intolerant and very irrational people, and I hate doing things twice because of an error 
I'm a bit shy of conflicts and tough relations, but I have become better at addressing them.
In the BDSM realm I turn away from blackmail and illegal things. I don't have experience with heavy pain, but hope to explore that. Blood turns me a bit off, but wouldn't scare me away. I don't want to make 3rd parties/bystanders very uncomfortable because of public play I’m involved in. And my BDSM activities have to be kept secret from people that know me outside the BDSM scene, at least for now.
I think am interested in becoming
- The best slave i can be. Make me become as useful financially as possible within my life situation and as helpful as possible in any way my skills, time and energy can assist my Mistress.
- The most perverted sissy slut doll possible and push things as far as possible within my current life situation.
Right now this is the most important part in my life
I am not open about my lifestyle to vanilla friends, so things have to happen without them noticing. Maybe that changes in the future.